Which countries have different etiquette than the US?
Many countries have etiquette that differs noticeably from the US, especially around tipping, greetings, personal space, and dress. Japan is the classic example: tipping isn't expected and can confuse staff, you remove your shoes indoors, and quiet, reserved behavior in public is valued. France, China, Thailand, the Middle East, and the Nordic countries also have customs American travelers should know.
Examples by country
- Japan: no tipping; take off shoes in homes, some restaurants, and temples; don't eat while walking in many places; keep phone calls quiet on trains; bow as a greeting.
- China: present and receive business cards and gifts with both hands; don't stick chopsticks upright in rice; tipping is generally not expected.
- France: always start with "Bonjour" when entering a shop or speaking to someone; dress neatly; meals are long and unhurried; service is included in the bill, so tips are small.
- Thailand: the head is sacred and the feet are considered low, so don't touch heads or point your feet; dress modestly at temples; never criticize the monarchy.
- Middle East and North Africa: dress conservatively; use your right hand to eat and give items; public displays of affection are frowned upon; respect Ramadan customs.
- Norway and other Nordic countries: punctuality, informality, and personal space are valued; small talk is limited; take your shoes off in homes.
- Germany: be on time; follow rules such as waiting at red pedestrian lights; quiet hours on Sundays are respected.
General rules that work everywhere
- Learn the local greeting and "thank you."
- Watch what locals do and follow their lead.
- Dress a bit more conservatively than you would at home, especially at religious sites.
- Ask before taking photos of people.
FAQ
Is leaving a tip rude in Japan?
It isn't usually seen as rude, but it's not expected and staff may try to return it. Excellent service is considered part of the job.
Can I wear ripped jeans in Japan?
Yes, casual clothing is fine in cities, but dress more modestly for temples, shrines, and formal settings.
Is it rude to leave food on your plate in Norway?
Generally, it's polite to take only what you'll eat and finish your plate, especially as a guest.
Are Japanese people friendly to American tourists?
Yes. Japan is known for politeness and helpfulness toward visitors.